Heal My Broken Heart – Top 3 Reasons He wants to Dump You

Have you ever had that strange yet sick feeling that you are about to be dumped by your boyfriend? Unexpectedly you are getting this impression that he just doesn’t want to be near you nor is he being very caring or loving. Can your relationship be resolved sooner than you need to mend your broken heart? If you do one or more of the things noted below, consider how you can change it.

1. Are you too clingy?
On every occasion you are with your man, do you attach yourself to him? Are you forever calling or texting him when you are not together? When he goes out with his friends, do you complain?

You will ultimately push him away if you do any of the above. He’s going to call and see you as frequently as he can at the start of the relationship when you are both on your best behavior. However before long he will begin to relax as such his calls and visits will be less frequent and shorter as the honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever. At this point the majority of women start to freak out, but it’s truly ok, he’s just getting comfortable and he still genuinely likes you. Instead of calling him all the time, you’d make more of a statement if you played a little hard to get.

2. You tell your friends everything!
The closer you and your partner become, the more relaxed you will be with each other. Things you have not shared with others, may be revealed to each other. Silly stuff may be done in order to make each other laugh. This should stay between the two of you, don’t share it with your friends! How would he feel if he found out that you told your gal pals that he cries or that he tried on your g-string all so he could make you laugh, can you picture it? Put yourself in his position – you wouldn’t want him to share your secrets with his friends, would you? You will eventually lose him if you lose his trust.

3. You are a very high maintenance type girl!
Do you always need reassurance on how your relationship is doing? Are you continually scrutinizing every circumstance that comes up between the two of you? With regards to how you look, are you forever questioning him? Are you always fishing for compliments?

If you want to drive him crazy then continue doing this but your relationship won’t last long! Do not over evaluate his answer when you ask him if you look good before heading out on a date and then make into a enormous debate on your relationship. In the middle of dinner with his friends present is not an appropriate time or place to discuss you relationship, no matter how much you feel you need it. I had a friend do that once and it made everyone uncomfortable!

Don’t make him think that nothing satisfies you – it will make him feel like he can’t do anything right because you find fault with everything. If you want to keep your man then you need to lighten up, otherwise you’ll be shopping for a new partner instead of a new dress.

So if you are feeling like your man is slipping away, take a look at what you are doing, are you the one pushing him away? If you make an effort to change, you might be able to save your relationship instead of having to mend your broken heart.