How to Heal My Broken Heart When He Loves Someone Else and You Still Love Him

You love him however he is in love with someone else, is there a system to mend your broken heart? You know he is “the one” because you’ve been buddies forever and admiring him from afar! How great your relationship might be and how greatly you desire to be with him is all you can think about but… he is in love with someone else.

It is very distressing to see him with someone else just as it can be extremely painful when you can’t be with him, the one you love. Is there some way to persuade him to love you? Having a relationship with him one day requires some patience on your part . The resolution to these types of situation can take a lengthy time. You must keep your distance while he is with the other person however during this time you should remain good friends to him but do not force yourself on him.

Also, never put his current girlfriend down in front of him. As this will cause you to look jealous and spiteful which are two qualities men do not like in women. If he is delighted with her and she is a good woman then just be there for him, as his friend. You need to be patient if she is not a good person as he has to realize it for himself. When he finally sees the daylight and she shatters his heart, you will be there to help him pick up the pieces and be the rock he need to get through this.

While you are trying to be patient and wait for him, you should date other people. This is to explore your options, keep an open mind, and not to make him jealous. Don’t look for something serious but you need to be out there enjoying your life while you wait. Spending your life waiting for that special person and then they never come to you is the absolute worse. You never know, maybe you will fall in love with someone else.

Another idea is that you could befriend his girlfriend thus making you an everlasting fixture in his life. That way you can see if she loves him as much he loves her, you might even begin to really like her. The point is you can be there for him if anything should go wrong.

If there is any possibility of the two of you getting together, this will re-enforce your relationship. I believe notable relationships are built on great friendships which started with a foundation of honesty and trust. Because he has been friends with you for such a lengthy time, he already knows who you are and loves you for you so there is no need for you to try and be someone you think he wants you to be. You’ve seen him at his best and his worst as he has with you and you still love him because of your friendship.

Be patient until he sees the light and realizes you are “the one”. Live your life: date, have fun and be a good friend to him. Be happy for him and be part of his life so you don’t have to mend your broken heart. If he is with you or not and if you really love him you’ll be happy for him.