Heal Your Broken Heart – 3 Tips to Help Someone Fall in Love with You

Girl loves boy or boy loves girl except they love somebody else, you witness it all the time in movies or on TV. Somehow by the end of show they are untied and live happily ever after. Can this fairy tale happen in real life? It is achievable to heal your broken heart and coerce someone into falling in love with you?

Here are 3 tips to help that special someone fall in love with you:

1. Common Interests – When people share a common pastime, they are often drawn to one another. As you get to know each other, find out their interests and if you share any. Build on any interests that you share, whether it be reading the same kinds of books or hiking. You could risk the relationship progressing any further and breaking their trust if you lie about an interest and they find out. Furthermore, you need to be true to yourself and do not change “who” you are just to get someone to love you.

2. Qualities – People look for people who have traits they like or think highly of when they are looking for a partner. For instance, a man who is a non-smoker, over the age of 35 and has a great sense of humor, is all my friend will date. Do you have qualities that the person you love, are attracted to? When you investigate prior relationships, are there any like qualities shared between ex-partners? Do you share any qualities with them? You can’t be just like his ex’s as there is a reason why they broken up, so be careful. That little something they were attracted to could be as simple as having the door being held open for them, holding their hand or made them feel special in some way.

3. Be a good friend – I believe a good relationship starts with friendship. You will become a very important part of their life as your friendship develops even though it may take a long time to get the person you love. If they need you, be there for them, be a good listener, but do not stop and just sit there and wait for them! Continue living is what you must do and as such you should try dating other people. If you look like you are just there for them at every whim you will only look pathetic. It may make them look differently at you, they may even find you more attractive and it may sound weird but to date other people while you wait for them show them that you have a life.

When the person you love doesn’t love you, it’s difficult and even heartbreaking. However that is not the way it has to be. If these 3 tips do not work, that person may not be the one for you and you will have to know when to move on and try to heal your broken heart or just like in the movies or on TV, you too could have a fairy tale ending.